Time Management From the Inside OutJulie Morgenstern
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ABOUT
THIS ITEM From
Our Editors According to Morgenstern, anyone can learn to manage. "Organizing is not
a mysterious talent," she insists, "but rather a completely learnable
skill." Morgenstern first taught readers that skill with her bestselling
guide to space management, Organizing from the Inside Out; in her new
primer, she brings her sensible, human approach to time management. She suggests
you make decisions about what's important, let go of what's boring, and then
experiment until you find what works. Each step is simple; together, they lead
you to a clearer sense of your personal priorities.
Morgenstern begins by showing her readers how to sketch out these personal
priorities. She offers exercises to help you nail down your goals; then, she
explains how to plan days around those goals. Career dreams, family duties,
spiritual needs, and social pleasures can all be measured into a week, with time
to further each. A busy workday, time spent with parents, and quiet moments
alone can all be scheduled. The key, says Morgenstern, is to organize your
activities so that each one balances the others. When is the right time for
reading a book alone? When should you gossip with friends? Morgenstern helps you
to sketch a workable map for each piece of the day, so you can balance working
with goofing off and solitude with sociability. In the process, you'll simplify
what matters to you.
Morgenstern's plan is sensible, and her methods are concrete. But most
appealingly, her methods help each person to find a schedule that suits.
"The key to Time Management from the Inside Out," she explains,
"is to build your life as much as possible around your individual needs and
desires." By following Morgenstern's suggestions, you can find a personal
plan that is both unique and flexible; you can find a plan that works.
Our Review
To plan a hectic week, you use a calendar. But how do you plan a hectic life?
According to Julie Morgenstern, you must begin with balanced priorities.
"Tune in to who you are and what you want," she suggests, "and
then build your life around that." Don't manage a heavy schedule by
cramming nasty tasks into each moment, Morgenstern proposes; instead, focus on
what you want most. Whether you need success, intimate friendships, or
encyclopedic knowledge -- or even all three -- Morgenstern can show you how to
purge your schedule of meaningless to-dos so you can make time that matters.
Time management is a skill that anyone can learn. Take control of your schedule,
connect the activities of your daily life to your most important big-picture
goals, and live the life of your dreams.
Julie Morgenstern, author of the bestselling Organizing from the Inside Out, is
the founder of Task Masters, a professional organizing company that provides
consulting services to individuals and companies. Her corporate clients have
included American Express, Sony Music, and Microsoft. In addition to her regular
appearances on MSNBC's The Home Page, Julie is a frequent guest on many national
television programs and a popular speaker around the country. She lives in New
York City with her daughter.
From
the Publisher
America's #1 organizer
tackles the time crunch and shows you how to get more done while easing your
stress.
These days, we face no greater challenge in our personal and professional lives than organizing and managing our time. Now Julie Morgenstern, whose bestselling Organizing from the Inside Out has helped hundreds of thousands of people conquer the clutter in their lives, explains how to overcome the time challenge once and for all. Her groundbreaking from-the-inside-out approach helps you uncover your psychological strengths and stumbling blocks and create a time-management system that suits your individual needs. Let Julie show you how to
Time management is a skill that anyone can learn. Take control of your schedule, connect the activities of your daily life to your most important big-picture goals, and live the life of your dreams.
"...outstanding resource ... It won't just help you manage your time, it will help you manage your life. A valuable read!" (Ken Blanchard, coauthor of The One Minute Manager and Leadership by the Book)
Julie Morgenstern, author of the bestselling Organizing from the Inside Out, is the founder of Task Masters, a professional organizing company that provides consulting services to individuals and companies. Her corporate clients have included American Express, Sony Music, and Microsoft. In addition to her regular appearances on MSNBC's The Home Page, Julie is a frequent guest on many national television programs and a popular speaker around the country. She lives in New York City with her daughter.
What
People Are Saying
If I had had Julie
Morgenstern's tips on how to organize my workload and prioritize my days,
balancing my growing business and family life would have been much easier.
—Chairman and CEO, Lilian Vernon Corporation —Lilian Vernon
Time Management from the
Inside Out is an outstanding resource in the process of being ready to live at a
higher level. It won't just help you manage your time, it will help you manage
your life. A valuable read! (Ken Blanchard, coauthor of The One Minute Manager
and Leadership by the Book) —Ken Blanchard
From
the Critics
From Publisher's Weekly -
Publishers Weekly
Best-selling author of
Organizing from the Inside Out, Morgenstern takes a similarly practical approach
to time. If one thinks of time has having "edges" (rather than being
amorphous), she explains, then it becomes as finite as space--and, consequently,
just as manageable. Morgenstern believes that there are three primary reasons
why people have difficulty managing time: "technical errors"
(miscalculating the length of a task); "external realities" (new baby,
new job) and "psychological obstacles" (perfectionism). What makes her
program work, she attests, is that instead of trying to change people's natural
behaviors and preferences, she encourages them to expand upon whatever is
working already, no matter how overwhelmed they may feel. It all starts with
knowing what one's big picture values and goals are (e.g., maintaining a happy
marriage, excelling at one's career) and prioritizing those with the help of an
ingenious device she's created called a "Time Map." Then, Morgenstern
helps the reader apply her "SPACE" system ("sort, purge, assign a
`home,' containerize and equalize")--the nitty-gritty of time
management--to align one's to-do list with the Time Map. Everything one does
(from important phone calls to major projects) must have its time and
place--even relaxation and fun ("There is no such thing as spare
time"). Morgenstern's simple book presents a superb, sound program for
"creating a life that nurtures you and makes you feel good." (Sept.)
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REVIEWS - An Open Forum
Number of Reviews: 1
Average Rating:
Rebecca Foxworth, March
29, 2001,
Not just a 'cram more activities into your life' book...
I've read time management books. I've been to seminars. I carry a planner.
Nothing, however, has been as helpful as this book. As the mother of a
seven-month old, I liked the suggestion that for the time being I treat my time
at home caring for our house at the same time I care for our daughter as though
I'm a crisis manager. I keep a list of projects, according to the time they
take, to work on in the little bits of time I have free each day. Also, the
suggestion about writing down and standardizing certain repetitive tasks made so
much sense to me...I now have a household notebook that includes such lists as
what goes in the diaper bag, and what needs to be packed for my daughter to go
to day care. This has made it so much easier for me to quickly do what needs to
be done, and it also allows others, such as my husband or a friend, to easily
complete these tasks for me. Great book!
Also recommended: Bonnie's Household Organizer (McCullough), It's
Here...Somewhere (Hatch), The Honor Girl (Hill)
EXCERPT
1 So what makes time management so difficult? It is my observation that the
single most common obstacle people face in managing their days lies in the way
they view time. Therefore, the very first step in taking control of time is to
challenge your very perception of it. MAKING TIME TANGIBLE Most people think of time as intangible. In the journey from chaos to order,
it is often easier to organize space than time, because space is something you
can actually see. Time, on the other hand, is completely invisible. You can't
see it or hold it in your hands. It's not something that piles up or that you
can physically move around. Time is something you feel, and it feels ... utterly amorphous. Some days go
whizzing by, others crawl painfully along. Even your tasks seem hard to measure
— infinite and endless in both quantity and duration. As long as time remains slippery, elusive, and hard to conceptualize, you
will have difficulty managing your days. You need to change your perception of
time and develop a more tangible view of it. You need to learn to see time in
more visual, measurable terms. In my own journey to getting organized, my biggest breakthrough came when I
realized that organizing time really is no different than organizing space. Let'
s compare a cluttered closet to a cluttered schedule to see the similarities. Cluttered Closet Cluttered Schedule In other words, just as a closet is a limited space into which you must fit a
certain number of objects, a schedule is a limited space into which you must fit
a certain number of tasks. Your days are not infinite and endless. When you
think of it this way, time is not so tangible and elusive. In fact, each day is
simply a container, a storage unit that has a definite capacity you can reach. Once you understand that time has boundaries, you begin to look at your
to-dos much differently. Tasks are the objects that you must fit into your
space. Each one has a size, and arranging them in your day becomes a
mathematical equation. As you evaluate what you need to do, you begin to
calculate the size of each task and whether you can fit it into the space. When you start seeing time as having borders, just as a space does, you will
become much more realistic about what you can accomplish, and much more
motivated to master various time-management tools and techniques to help you
make the most of your time. If a cluttered closet and a cluttered schedule are the same, then organizing
each is a very similar process. My first book, Organizing from the Inside Out,
taught that whether you are organizing a closet, kitchen, office, or schedule,
designing a system that lasts lies in always following the same three steps:
ANALYZE-STRATEGIZE-ATTACK. This book is a thorough examination of how the three steps of the organizing
process apply to the particularities of time. Throughout, we will build upon
this more tangible view of time, and show you how to arrange your schedule just
as you would a beautifully organized room, one that reflects what's important to
you. It will be easy to figure out where your time goes, and to find time for
the important things in your life, because every activity and task will have a
"home". Copyright © 2000 Julie Morgenstern
A WHOLE NEW WAY
OF LOOKING AT
TIME MANAGEMENT
Limited amount of space
Crammed with more stuff than storage
Items jammed into any available pocket of space, in no particular order
Haphazard arrangement makes it difficult to see what, you have
Inefficient in its use of organizing tools
Limited amount of hours
Crammed with more tasks than time
Tasks jammed into any available pocket of time, in no particular order
Haphazard arrangement makes it difficult to see what you have to do
Inefficient in its use of time-management tools
CHAPTER
Chapter
One
A WHOLE NEW WAY OF LOOKING AT TIME MANAGEMENT
So what makes time management so difficult? It is my observation that the
single most common obstacle people face in managing their days lies in the way
they view time. Therefore, the very first step in taking control of time is to
challenge your very perception of it.
MAKING TIME TANGIBLE
Most people think of time as intangible, In the journey from chaos to order,
it is often easier to organize space than time, because space is something you
can actually see. Time, on the other hand, is completely invisible. You can't
see it or hold it in your hands. It's not something that piles up or that you
can physically move around.
Time is something you feel, and it feels ...
utterly amorphous. Some days go whizzing by, others crawl painfully along, liven
your tasks seem hard to measure—infinite and endless in both quantity and
duration.
As long as time remains slippery, elusive, and hard to
conceptualize, you will have difficulty managing your days. You need to change
your perception of time and develop a more tangible view of it. You need to
learn to see time in more visual, measurable terms,
In my own journey to getting organized, my biggest
breakthrough came when I realized that organizing time really is no different
than organizing space. Let's compare a cluttered closet to a cluttered schedule
to see the similarities.
DEFINING TIME MANAGEMENT FROM THE INSIDE OUT
Time management from the inside out is about designing a schedule that is a
custom fit for you. It's about identifying what's important to you and
giving those activities a place in your schedule based on your unique
personality needs and goals. And it's about feeling deeply satisfied at the end
of each day.
Time Management from the Inside Out honors and
celebrates the fact that everybody is different. And each of us has different
needs at different points in our lives. There is no "right" way to
live your life. I am not here to tell you to live a simple, calm life, nor to
convince you to fill every waking moment with highly productive activity.
Nowhere in this book will you read "truisms" such as "the early
bird catches the worm," or that you must work less, or play less, or be
anything other than who you are.
Instead, this book will help you tune in to who you are
and what you want, and then give you the tools to build your life around that.
You can learn new skills and modify some behaviors, but you can't really change
your essence—and you shouldn't. This book will take you through a process of
self-discovery of your likes and dislikes, natural habits, needs, and desires.
These become the foundation of your time-management system. My system offers you
a process, not a prescription.
The following two profiles illustrate how completely
different one person's life can look from the next, and yet both can
successfully manage their time from the inside out.
Patrice: Structured, Predictable, and Calm
Patrice is a thirty-eight-year-old married mother of a four-year-old-boy. She
works full-time as a senior staff writer for a woman's fashion magazine. She
thrives on routine, enjoys a sense of calm, and hates to feel rushed or
pressured. Her family and personal time are just as important as her work time,
and keeping a balance between them all is extremely important to her.
Patrice is very clear on her goals: she wants her son to
feel loved and important, she wants to keep her marriage well nurtured, and she
wants to maintain her reputation as a highly dependable, talented writer.
She wakes her son every morning at 6:45 and they go
through a delightful morning routine, which includes singing songs while he gets
dressed, having breakfast, and playing a game before they walk to his school.
After dropping him off, she knows she needs a little transition time to go from
"mom-head" to "work-head." So each morning she goes down
into the subway and lets four trains pass while she reads The New York Times.
She hops on the fifth train and arrives at work focused and ready to go.
Her workday also is filled with routines. She writes in
the mornings, and researches, interviews, and attends staff meetings in the
afternoons. She checks her planner to see exactly what she needs to do and gets
right to it, without hesitation. She has never missed a deadline.
She works 9:30 to 5:30 five days per week. She picks her
son up from school three days per week, but has her mother or her husband pick
him up on Mondays and Thursdays. This frees her up to work late every Monday
night, and see a friend for a movie on Thursdays. Patrice delegates well. She
believes strongly that including others in the care of her son not only keeps
her life in balance, but also enriches his life by surrounding him with many
people who love him.
Weekends have a predictable pattern, too. Friday nights
are family video night. Saturday mornings she takes Kyle to a music class, and
in the afternoon they eat lunch at a local restaurant and then go to the
playground or a museum. Every Sunday Patrice's husband and Kyle have their own
father-son outing, while Patrice stays home to prepare for her upcoming
workweek.
Patrice pays astute attention to how long tasks take to do
and pares back her schedule so that she has ample time for each activity. She's
calculated how long it takes her son to get dressed every morning, and wakes him
up in time for him to get ready at his pace. Patrice's life is built solidly
around her priorities, and is delightfully predictable, calm, and gratifying to
her. It's a life that fits her personality and priorities, is rich and
rewarding, and is built for her from the inside out.
Andrew: Work-Centered, Fast-Paced and Unpredictable
Andrew is fifty-six and the CEO of one of the world's largest resort chains.
He thrives on variety, loves interacting with lots of people, and is a highly
creative problem solver. He doesn't need much time to "stew" on
things. He is quick on his feet, confident in his opinions, and focused. He can
shift gears easily, handling interruptions well.
Andrew is passionately committed to his work and his goal
is to keep his company on the leading edge. His mission is to set an example of
extraordinary customer service every day, pursue all significant opportunities
for growth, and study as much as he can about his industry.
Andrew's time is structured to support and celebrate his
personality and goals. His days are structured to allow for a lot of spontancity
and variety. He is at his desk every morning at seven and spends the first hour
reading industry journals, then spends one hour handling e-mail and phone calls.
From nine o'clock on, his time is left open to handle all of the needs,
urgencies, and requests that come up all day long in running a large
corporation. Andrew keeps a very short to-do list. He knows his job is to
respond to the needs of others and having a long to-do list would only frustrate
him. In between meetings he keeps going back to his desk to answer calls and
e-mails. His mission for the past thirty years has been to answer every phone
call (and now e-mail) the day it comes in. He has met that goal. At the end of
each day (which ends somewhere between six and eight P.M.), he spends one more
hour at his desk, responding to the last of the phone calls and e-mails that
came in.
Andrew delegates extremely effectively. He finds and hires
the best talent to run the various departments of his organization. He works
very closely with his secretary and they have many tools to support a fast-paced
teamwork. They have designed checklists and forms for speeding up communication
between them regarding travel arrangements, setting appointments, planning
meetings, and adding "contacts" to one of his sixteen mailing lists.
Their computers are networked so that both Andrew and Dorothy can easily access
his online calendar, which Dorothy keeps for him.
All day long, Andrew responds immediately to the needs of
the people who work for him. He rapidly works down the stack of papers in his
in-box, dispatching each of them in seconds, jotting notes directly onto the
paper or using one of his preprinted forms. He makes quick decisions.
Andrew works long hours—usually twelve-hour days—but
he reserves evenings for dinners with his family and friends. He gets the bulk
of his pleasure from his work—it is a source of tremendous energy for him.
However, as much fun as he has at work, he knows the value of relationships
outside work and time off. Weekends are his leisure time, and he enjoys taking
regular vacations.
Andrew's life is rich and rewarding, and he too has built
it from the inside out.
* * *
As you can see, Patrice and Andrew are very different people with very
different ways of doing things. Patrice sticks closely to her highly determined
framework each week, while Andrew's bare-bones framework allows for a lot of
spontaneity. Yet they both feel great about how they are spending their time,
attack each day with vigor and excitement, and feel satisfied at the end of each
day.
Everyone would like to have as much control over their
days as Patrice and Andrew do, but for many people, something is standing in the
way. As you will see in the next chapter, it's important to know what is
preventing you from being able to manage your time. Once you know what's holding
you back, you can pinpoint the solution.
ClutteredCloset
Cluttered Schedule
· Limited amount of space
· Limited amount of hours
· Crammed with more stuff than storage
· Crammed with more tasks than time
· Items jammed into any available pocket of space in no particular
order
· Tasks jammed into any available pocket of time in no particular
order
· Haphazard arrangement makes it difficult to see what you have
· Haphazard arrangement makes it difficult to see what you have to do
· Inefficient in its use of organizing tools
· Inefficient in its use of time management tools
In other words, just as a closet is a limited space into which you must fit a
certain number of objects, a schedule is a limited space into which you must
fit a certain number of tasks. Your days are not infinite and endless. When
you think of it this way, time is not so intangible and elusive. In fact, each
day is simply a container, a storage unit that has a definite capacity you can
reach.
Once you understand that time has boundaries, you begin to look at your to-dos
much differently. Tasks are the objects that you must fit into your space.
Each one has a size, and arranging them in your day becomes a mathematical
equation. As you evaluate what you need to do you begin to calculate the size
of each task and whether you can fit it into the space.
When you start seeing time as having borders, just as a space does, you will
become much more realistic about what you can accomplish, and much more
motivated to master various time-management tools and techniques to help you
make the most of your time.
If a cluttered closet and a cluttered schedule are the same, then organizing
each is a very similar process. My first book, Organizing from the Inside
Out, taught that whether you are organizing a closet, kitchen, office, or
schedule, designing a system that lasts lies in always following the same
three steps: ANALYZE—STRATEGIZE—ATTACK.
This book is a thorough examination of how the three steps of the organizing
process apply to the particularities of time. Throughout, we will build upon
this more tangible view of time, and show you how to arrange your schedule
just as you would a beautifully organized room, one that reflects what's
important to you. It will be easy to figure out where your time goes, and to
find time for the important things in your life, because every activity and
task will have a "home."
Table
of Contents
Introduction: The Power of Time Management
1
Part 1
Laying the Foundation
1
A Whole New Way of Looking at Time Management
9
2
What's Holding You Back?
19
Part 2
Analyze
3
Understanding Your Personal Relationship to Time
43
4
Developing Your Big-Picture Goals
59
Part 3
Strategize
5
Time Mapping: Creating Your Ideal Balance
79
6
Selecting a Planner That Works for You
109
Part 4
Attack
Introduction
7
Sort
141
8
Purge
159
9
Assign a Home
185
10
Containerize
195
11
Equalize
211
Appendix
219
Suggested Further Reading
223
Acknowledgments
227
Index
231